I have been present at the deaths of many people. It is good for them to have someone there, with them. But I do not believe it is necessary for everyone to be present. Goodbyes can be said before the final moments.
Speaking for myself, I would rather be alone than become a spectacle.
Well, I'll bear that in mind if it comes down to it. On either end.
[it likes to make something of a spectacle of both sides, after all, so-- that's something he can bear in mind, when it comes to the decision to watch or leave.]
I did speak with him, just- it didn't feel right, in this case.
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[drawing on everyone's words like that is-- a lot.]
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...I don't know, I think I'd have felt worse if I left, though.
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[her mouth twists slightly in a frown.]
I don't agree.
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Suppose it still just feels a little wrong, not to be there when someone dies.
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Speaking for myself, I would rather be alone than become a spectacle.
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[it likes to make something of a spectacle of both sides, after all, so-- that's something he can bear in mind, when it comes to the decision to watch or leave.]
I did speak with him, just- it didn't feel right, in this case.